The Caffeinated Mama

Almost three years ago, I started a blog as a constructive and cathartic way to deal with the nuances of pregnancy and to document my journey into the motherhood tribe. In some way, I was also hoping that I could provide some insight for my teen sisters about what pregnancy really entailed and to perhaps be an inspiration to other First Time Moms (FTMs). Little did I know, that would begin what is now Caffeinated Mamas, a mother support group (MSG). As a FTM, there were a lot of things I read, but nothing could really prepare me for the reality. No one wants to talk about the real stuff, just the glitz and glam and the snap back post-baby body. The only way to truly help others is to be authentic. This MSG is a safe space that doesn’t keep a “Mommy scorecard,” because no one is perfect. My hope is to foster a Mom community where real women can be themselves. Ask the not so silly questions, learn from one another, and be each other’s support. The motherhood journey can be challenging as I have learned, and it is easy to put “self” on the back-burner. Finding the balance to work and raise babies while maintaining a sense of individuality can only be done if we make time to fill our cup. You can’t be the best you, mom, wife/partner, etc if you don’t focus on yourself sometimes. 

You cannot pour from an empty cup. 

We can help fill each other’s cup.