Almost three years ago, I started a blog as a constructive and cathartic
way to deal with the nuances of pregnancy and to document my journey
into the motherhood tribe. In some way, I was also hoping that I could
provide some insight for my teen sisters about what pregnancy really
entailed and to perhaps be an inspiration to other First Time Moms
(FTMs). Little did I know, that would begin what is now Caffeinated
Mamas, a mother support group (MSG). As a FTM, there were a lot of
things I read, but nothing could really prepare me for the reality. No
one wants to talk about the real stuff, just the glitz and glam and the
snap back post-baby body. The only way to truly help others is to be
authentic. This MSG is a safe space that doesn’t keep a “Mommy
scorecard,” because no one is perfect. My hope is to foster a Mom
community where real women can be themselves. Ask the not so silly
questions, learn from one another, and be each other’s support. The
motherhood journey can be challenging as I have learned, and it is easy
to put “self” on the back-burner. Finding the balance to work and raise
babies while maintaining a sense of individuality can only be done if
we make time to fill our cup. You can’t be the best you, mom,
wife/partner, etc if you don’t focus on yourself sometimes.
You cannot
pour from an empty cup.
We can help fill each other’s cup.
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